Anyway the 70, 80s are gone, so with the 90s. Yet, as a thing it all comes back, or is it that some just never transition out of those styles and patterns perhaps. No clue but to each there own.
Patterns that repeat. History that repeats, is it predictable? Do we know when the mullet will come back as a new hairstyle trend again? Is it predictable? Or are there other "things" that also have to occur in "fashion industry " to accompany the hairstyle?
Well much simpler than predicting the next fashion trend is the repeated behavior of the human conditions. Thats predictable. All based on the cues that lead up to the behavior. Subtle as they may be, they're as obvious as that eyeliner that makes your eyes look oddly tiny disproportunate to the rest of your face.
As an example: we all can usually sense when somethings off with someone we think we know well. Whether it's actions, attitude, random odd behavior, unexplained irritability, whatever..you can usually figure it out somethings up, if you give a shit that is. If this cycle occurs repetedly, the behaviors become really predictable. If the person is a good actor >>>you'll notice difference in how the game of manipulation is played. As in, your crazy for thinking somethings up, is what you may hear. It's a game. You're not crazy. You're also right. Trust me, I heard all about it for years, witnessed it first hand, and heard the stories of.."I'll never change".
So, don't bother with the old tactic you on e used in trying to figure it out. That game has changed. Master manipulator is always one step ahead of you. However, some are not so smart! That's when they get "busted". Sorry 80s terminology.
So forgetting thru a phone~ that's is expected and known! Anyone who knows their phone is looked at, say while they sleep, is really dumb to leave anything on there. Careful trying to access work email accounts, Skype, teams, zoom. You could get yourself in trouble. Social media platforms all those secrets are blocked, internet anything scrubbed, if its a secret ~it's all blocked, deleted, erased or on a flash drive or perhaps old storage devices, computers, etc.
Most phones especially Samsung have 2 phones in one. So there is an entire hidden phone you may not know about. Note 9 and up I think still have that feature. However~ Aliases. Multiple aliases. Multiple user names and accounts. Thats a thing. Harder to track too. But not impossible if you know how. I should know~ i went to college and took classes on how to do it all. Theres not a social media platform out there with the right tool the user can see everyone who views posts, profiles, etc. So spying on what someone is doing, is dumb. If they want to find out who's looking, they can, it's simple. And why do you care?
If patterns, obvious behaviors and actions, are trending again, you already know the answer for "whats going on". Why are you denying it? Its not poor you anymore, or poor me, or poor anyone. Its time to change shit up. Driving yourself crazy looking thru all this other crude is pointless tryimg to find proof. History is repeating itself, how much more proooooooooooffff do you need? Accept the answer for what it is. Accept the behavior for what it is, the question is are you going to continue to allow, continue to give the situation and those involved PERMISSION to do this to you again, and again, and again. Or does history stop? It's all up to you. Don't be dumb.